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I seek that unique, special woman. One who has experienced her submissive side and is submissive. But......being submissive is not enough for her. She has had and still has that dominant side, that side that likes to take control, be in control, be served, pleased and obeyed....when she does not crave serving, pleasing and obeying a dominant man. She is truly submissive when submissive, and truly dominant when dominant. Both please her, she needs both at different times, depending on so many things. I am that. I have a submissive side that need to serve her, please her, be used by her, take some pain from her and more. Then, I have a need at times to control her, use her, watch her squirm for me, please me, take pain for me and more. I am married and need discretion. I am professional, intelligent, down-to-earth, easy going when I need to be, serious when it warrants it. I am open-minded and have a great sense of humor. I am looking for a woman who has similar traits, but especially who has the need to be both submissive and dominant. If you see yourself here, let me know, let's chat and see where things go.