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In the vanilla world I am a slightly nerdy scientist. I am in the process of separation from my husband and have two younger children, so my attendance to events is very dependent on scheduling around conflicts.

I prefer a real relationship to scene based play. If there is no emotional connection, then there is no kink with me. Inside of a relationship, I look for a dominant who wants a 1950s dynamic - holding me accountable to agreed on goals, punishing me if necessary, supporting me emotionallysocially (when Im struggling).

I do not do drugs, smoke, and only occasionally drink (and never when I play). I struggle with mental health, but am good about taking my meds. Anything else you are curious about, just ask.