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tongueslaveor

I find it difficult to sit down and just spew forth information in this format. How can I even begin to give you the basics of who I am, in two or three paragraphs? I have been on this site for a while, and while I appreciate the friends that I have made on here, where do we even begin to make deeper connections?

I have a lot to offer for the right woman. I know that, and I am not only happy with myself, I respect myself as well. I will treat you with kindness and respect.

I am submissive in private, dominant in public. Not dominant in the alpha-male, my dick is bigger than yours type of way. I just have a quiet confidence, and the strength of will that no one questions me. I prefer to be the caring, loving, submissive type behind closed doors. Is this too much to ask for? To find a woman who wants to be an equal in the day to day aspects of our lives, but wants complete control when we are alone? Sometimes I wonder.

I am intelligent. I graduated from college with honors and a degree in history and philosophy. I went to law school for a while, but left due to medical reasons, and serious burnout. But believe me, it is not hubris when I say that I am usually the smartest person in the room. I don't lord that over people, I just sit back and use it to my advantage.

I am kind. I treat those around me with respect, and caring and they appreciate me for it. I am not an asshole, except when needed at my work. I have a big heart, and hope to share it with the right person.

I love sex, and obviously the kinky side of things. (I mean, why would I be on this site if I didn't like that side of things). I don't want to be with someone who hates men, or hates sex. I simply want to be with someone who thinks that sex should be on her terms. I'm okay with that. I prefer it, honestly.

I don't want to be with someone who hates herself (been there, done that, no t-shirt required). I don't want to be with someone who hates me, or hates men (been there too). I want to be with someone who loves themselves, treats others with respect, and who wants a partner in life.

I could go on forever, but I feel as though I'm already rambling.

One final thing, I cook better than almost anyone you'll find on here. ;)