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This is my third go round on this site, and I feel that the third time will be the charm. Even if not, what could it hurt to try again? Not much. Such is me, ever optimistic.
And no reason not to be. My feeling is that there is that special person, that certain dominant woman, out there, just waiting to meet a submissive man just like me. The question has been, and remains, how to expedite the process of meeting this person. Hmmmm.
I've tried all sorts of ways, with variable success. I have lived with two dominant women who, while I was very fond of both, were not ultimately compatible with my needs, or I with theirs. So close, in both cases, so close - but, close doesn't really count for much in love, does it?
Who am I? A 42 year old guy, with a decent job, a loving family, never married, no children, goofy sense of humor but serious about finding what I seek. I will, I think, though it has taken longer than I would have thought. I suppose that is the curse of being a submissive male in today's world: the ratio of submissive males to dominant females is rather discouraging at times. Then again, as I said before, I am optimistic.
What else am I? Loyal, devoted to those whom I love, good natured, really rather submissive with the right person and open to exploring every facet of the BDSM oriented lifestyle. Moderately experienced, but I want to find a new level of submission. Rather difficult to describe what that might be; it's more of a know it when you feel it type of thing.
What am I looking for? The woman to who I will devote my life. She's sarcastic, could be a smoker, maybe drinks, has a tattoo, maybe a little nerdy or rough around the edges. But, also compassionate and is not in this lifestyle to see how much she can get from the suckers unlucky enough to fall in lust or love with her. In other words, she wants a relationship, not some jerk she whips because he pays her bills or buys her things. I like giving gifts (I am a romantic, after all), but I do not like the idea of being exploited.
Emotionally mature is nice, as well. And someone with those little lines around her mouth because she loves to laugh. Then again, she would also desire complete control, and have a good understanding of the psychology of all of this - the means to take and keep control, not only with a paddle, but with her feminine nature, her sensuality and her keen intellect.
And, in case you are wondering, I do believe that women should be in charge, at least of me. I have always been deferential towards the fairer sex, and will always be. I truly love women, everything about them. I also understand that this type of relationship is, in many ways, not so different than any other: life is life, and must be lived, with all of the attendent trials and tribulations and tediums. It isn't all a latex fantasy land.
I am open to meeting and falling in love, and I am open to marriage. That was not always the case, but as I advance in years, I have come to understand the value of living my life with someone that I adore.
If you would like a picture, please feel free to ask. I will say up front, I am not stunningly handsome, and I could lose some pounds. But I have my good points, too. If you'd like to know more, here I am, waiting to answer.
Thank you!
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