Thank you, my dear. A wonderful day.... I hadn't realised you'd been such a bad girl, but Daddy soon had you making up for being so naughty.

So distressing to chat with a sub who's been, in effect, bullied by a man who thinks dominance is about being rude and insulting. It's not being 'dominant' to belt hell out of a girl's frame: it's also about engaging her mind, finding the buttons that make her quail, make her wish to submit. When she hands over her safety, her choices, to you, it's a moment when you take on the responsibility to care for her, to cherish her.

God, I wish I'd found this site earlier.....