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| I self identify as a submissive and not a slave. I would say I'm probably closer to one of those mustangs you find in the wild than to a docile, simpering puppet too. I like my men able to play hard and that love hard use. Cuddles and snuggles and cotton candy dreams are nice but I could easily find that in vanilla. They have their place but for me it's not a primary one. By the same token, I don't want a robot that has no emotions and feels that he's playing some kind of role in a D/s movie where he's just following whatever he thinks is fitting. I've met some of those and they're a little creepy.
I have limits. Sane people should. Mine are reasonable and mostly have to do with disgusting things, sanitary issues, and safety. I'm also not looking for anyone out of the US. I'd consider relocating but if I need a passport to do it then no thanks, I'll pass. If you list your age as 99 then you go to bulk since you're starting off as a liar (and a douche). I'm not an unreasonable woman but I believe in being upfront in order to save everyone's time. Yours is valuable and you know it.
Me? I like a lot of things. I consider myself fairly normal in the ways that really count for a happy, contented life. I read a lot, like movies, would travel if I could, adore musicals, volunteer my time, and love sports. As far as D/s... I'd rather get to know a person and see where we're both at since that's the best way to get to know someone anyway. Though I also love casual play and I'm not against it.
If you have the phrase "your submission is a beautiful gift" (or anything like it) then we're probably not going to get along. I agree that submission is a gift in the other definition of the word - a natural ability or talent. I see submission as a choice because you make a decision and you (should) take the consequences of that choice. A lot of time gifts are really trivial things or obligations.
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