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tigre44

I guess I would call myself "an intellectual Dom". I'm not physically imposing (although I would rate my looks at least "good" and my physical stature at least "fit"). I believe that the mind, the most powerful sexual organ we possess, working in concert with that blurry area between fantasy and reality, allows us the possibility of reaching that "kink-space", the ultimate satisfaction in our Dominant (me) and submissive (you) roles.

Nothing is more amazing than the true power exchange between Dom and sub, when she gives herself over to Him, relinquishing control of her very soul to his ministrations of pain and pleasure. Two people connected this way can float on in ecstatic waves...

I can deliver intelligent conversation, ranging from the trivial to the entertaining to the profound. I am a student of the world, and love intimate conversations in poorly lit booths at busy eateries, or on walks through nature, or in a quiet living space, with hot coffee or tea to stimulate the mood.

I can also deliver intelligent kink, all at once cherishing and gentle, as well as powerful and brutal in its impact.

I have been practicing this lifestyle while I can, for more than a little while now, and I think I can combine the experience and safety-consciousness of a veteran wth the enthusiasm and thrill of one who has many discoveries still to make.

My Ideal Person: Someone willing to laugh and learn with me, one who embraces the concept of total power exchange and craves to be submissive, to yield to her Dom and complete the circuit of erotic power between them.

Someone who has taken care of themselves physically, not perfect by any means (I'm certainly not), but not very out of shape either. I tend to prefer someone with at least some "meat on their bones", though. And, because I'm the age I am, chances are we need to be contemporaries in that area, if we are to find enough common ground to make it intellectually, emotionally, and physically satisying for both of us.