Photo vs No Photo.
I don't have a photo of myself up. Yes, this is true. Why? Is it because I'm ugly? Is it because I'm fat? Is it because I have deep scaring on my face? Is it because I have small boobs? Because I'm cross eyed?
Nope.
Am I an upstanding member of the community and don't want my photo up? Is it because I'm cheating on my partner and don't want him to find me on this website?
Wrong again.
I don't like being judged by my looks. I'm not super hot but I'm not ugly either. If you like me, like me for who I am, not what I look like. Because that photo is a milisecond of what I look like in real life. I don't look like that when I wake up, when I've arrived from work, when I've gotten off the phone with a stressful person or the other non-pretty times of my every day life.
I know that if I put a photo of my self up on my profile I would get swamped of messages from all kinds of creeps and some seemingly nice men but I don't want superficial attention. So, if you real all of this and you like the sound of it all by all means send me a message. If you are really anti-no-photo then I understand and keep searching.
- Misty
PS/ Yes I am single. No, I am not currently seeing anyone. Just in case some people got confused there. |