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I am a passionate, creative, intelligent, open minded, sarcastic, loyal (when that boundary is established), gentle, loving individual. I feel we need to give back to the?earth in any way possible.?I will play just about any game, be it board, card or outdoor sports. I played softball all summer and would love to have someone on the sidelines rooting for me next year. And, hey, if we take that cheerleader outfit into the bedroom.. yummy. ;)
In the bedroom (and every other room in the house, as they should all be de-virginized), I'm very much into role playing a D/s theme. I'm a switch, but lean more to the sub side of things. I love giving. LOVE it. If you are a natural sub like I am, you will understand that statement and know exactly the EXTREME joy I get from performing for my lover. If you are not sub by nature, I don't think I could describe what it is like, just know it is on a very high plane of ecstasy. I also get some very Dom thoughts running through my brain from time to time. The thought of a beautiful set of Shibari?knots wrapped around my lovers body thrills me to no end. When on top, I do not fantasize about giving extreme pain, I am no sadist. I *can* if my lover wants it, but I want you to know it is not something I *need* to do if you're not into it. On the other hand, there are two particular spots on my upper body that just DIG being tortured by my lover. ;) There are also plenty of [more] times when straight vanilla, let's get it on, we lust after each others being sex will unfold. It is not all role playing and games, but I believe it certainly spices things up, and keeps a relationship from getting into a rut (a very bad thing IMHO). Also, please know, none of the above (or below) is going to happen overnight. Some will take weeks, some months before the trust and comfort is there between two people. It took years with my ex wife before I got to a trust level to talk to her about some of these things. You have it all before you now. Take it or leave it.
I do not believe I am poly. I want my heart to be intertwined with just one other heart, my best friend, my lover, my partner. I am however open to things heating up in the bedroom (or any other room as noted above ;)) with others; just sex. As of now, based upon my last relationship, I would want that to be an open option with my partner. The sexual preference I chose for this profile says "straight", but that really isn't an accurate?description. While, I have no desires to jump the bones of every hot guy I see, I do know that I can be forced to perform many duties if my [female] partner and I were with someone else, and things happened.? I have no desire to be with a man on my own. I am extremely confident in who I am and comfortable with my sexuality. You should be too.
I am looking for a long term partner who will share my joy of power play in the bedroom, but walk beside me in life outside of sex.
One final thing, I am divorced, don't let the ring in the picture scare you.
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