i just read in a Dominant's profile that many Dominants/Masters need to check their egos at the door. Also if  they are just learning to try a Mentor. i think that's a brilliant statement. i wish when i was just starting out i was open to the idea of being mentored by a more experienced submissive. even now i do not have any female submissive friends. It would be nice to share a friendship with someone where  am not always having to defend my lifestyle choice.