While I am new to this, I know that I can not have an online only relationship.  Also, I know myself well enough to know that I am not going to give over control to just anyone, there has to be trust and respect, so as a result the title of Dom/Sir/Master has to be earned (and agreed upon) and not something I will agree to do in a few mail exchanges.  While I am looking for a Dom, I am not looking for someone to run my life and make my decisions for me.