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Hello!

I don't know if this is the right place to ask this question or if it belongs in a poll in a chat room or something, but I am wondering if, when you men put down that you are interested in poly and/or swinging, is that because you have to have it, highly prefer it, or that it's wishful thinking, the kind of "every man's fantasy" type thing?

As you may be able to tell from what I've said below, when you put down that you want to swing or do poly, it puts some women off, just to let you know.

Some months back, I viewed profiles of female subs in my area, and many of us are looking for the same thing: a monogamous relationship.

Right now I am looking for someone I can see on the occasional weeknight, especially during the summer, on the weekends, and for long weekends, talk to during the week, see on non-family type holidays, travel with to places like San Antonio and New Orleans,and have fun!

Here are some of my basic requirements for my man: in the Houston-Galveston area; minimum height 5'10" and HWP; healthy, age range 35-50, believe in a higher power than yourself; politically non partisan or liberal, but not too extreme; heterosexual only; natural born males only who are attracted to natural born females, for lack of better terminology (not that I don't like trannies but I just don't want to date them nor do I wish to compete with them!), but if you want anal penetration with a strap on I'll give it to you;no poly, or swinging, or men who are attached, i.e., in a relationship, whether it's a BDSM one or not. No addicts or people with criminal records. Non-tobacco product user.

You need to have at least a Bachelor's degree.

I am a professional and I would prefer that you be a professional.

I'm allergic to tobacco product smoke and cats.

I am a BDSM novice and no, I'm not just trying to satisfy my curiosity. How can I know if I like something or not if I've never done it? I see the responses this site has to offer with regard to activities, etc., and I put curious by ones that I might like to try. The only other option was no opinion. If I selected that for every item that I put curious for, it might look as if I'm not interested in anything.

This site's profiles don't have the general term that applies to one of my favorite pursuits, which is reading.

I am also interested in architecture.

Thank you!