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I have just recently joined the site and my profile will be a work in progress until I am satisfied with it, at which time I will remove this introductory caveat. I am a well-educated, well-spoken, well-traveled, sophisticated professional. However, you'd never know all that about me just by looking at me and by no means am I stuffy and arrogant. Actually, I am a quite down to earth with a good, if dry, sense of humor and enjoy a hearty laugh over a beer as much as anyone else. I am successful in my work but I have a need to surrender control at home. I seek a Dominant Female who understands that kind of need. The Domme I seek takes the time to learn the needs and limits of Her submissive, but I understand that a sub should not "top from the bottom." I have explored the BDSM lifestyle a bit so am somewhat familiar, though my actual experience is very limited. I have just recently divorced, ending a very vanilla marriage which left me quite unfulfilled on a multitude of levels: emotionally, spiritually, and physically. I am able to commit to a lifestyle relationship. However, I will be very limited in my ability to meet for the next two years due to work-related travel. I am not looking for: A Domme who demands financial control A Domme who withholds sex as punishment...I was in a sexless marriage for long enough...I understand that sex and orgasm may be rewards but I am not looking to be fitted for a chastity device A Domme who is into torture...I understand about expanding limits and by no means am I a fragile shell, but I just don't find that exciting or appealing at all I am more than happy to correspond and get to know each other better. I learned while exploring the BDSM lifestyle in the past that a true D/s relationship requires the deepest of bonds build on a solid foundation of trust which can only be developed over time through open and honest communication.