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I have high standards, and I hope that You will too. I do not need to be punished, unless I fail at a task or do not give it my utmost effort. Punishment is a teaching tool, not something to be administered on a whim or an impulse. Of course a Mistress may play with Her property for Her own entertainment when She wishes, but that is not punishment, however uncomfortable or unpleasant it might be for the submissive. I am looking for total service. Sexual, yes, if that is required, and I am fully capable in that regard. But I am of an age where I understand that life is about much more than sex, and I am looking to enhance a Mistress' entire life, not just provide some occasional sexual outlet for Her. I do not give out my email address until I can be reasonably sure the recipient is genuine. And I will not go on cam or skype until I have established some kind of rapport with a Mistress: I am not a performing monkey. I absolutely will NOT send money or gifts until I am actually in a relationship, and then any gifts can be delivered in person by hand. I am a proud man, and a proud submissive, and I do not expect to be denigrated or demeaned for my gender or my nature. I am not worthless, for then why would anyone want me? I am of huge worth to the Mistress who can see my talents and abilities and wishes to harness them for Her own ends. I neither require nor respond to humiliation: any Woman who attempts such just lowers Herself and is not worthy of my time or attention. And who am I to be so bold as to require a Domme to be worthy of my attention? I am a submissive man. If She cannot respect me for that, then I cannot respect Her. And respect is everything.