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stephaniet

Who I am today, I may not be tomorrow... I am an evolution in process. The people and things around me help me to mold and shape into who I am to become. I am my truest self. It is just that every day I am learning and becoming a better me.


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If you want to know what I am seeking please ask. I am not seeking a master, however, because I already have the best there is.
11/21/2005 11:22:01 AM
I am not sure how to make this clear to people, but I am not seeking a dom or a Master of any type.  I am here in hopes of meeting people.  So do not write me and ask if I want to serve you because I will not reply after this.   I am telling you now.  I DO NOT want to serve  you!!!!
9/24/2005 8:29:35 PM
People interest me. I never knew that there could be so many kind and understanding people in this world, but I am finding just as many who are closed minded and mean. Why is it that we judge those who are different from us? Is their being different such a bad thing? Aren't all of us here the ones considered "different" from the rest or the "norms"? Do we really want everyone to be just like us? Like us in how we think? Like us in how we feel? Like us in what we like or don't? If that were how we wanted things, wouldn't we all just be vanilla? Do you really want to create that type of world for us to live in? Or do we, as individuals, want to stand out in a crowd?
8/4/2005 2:34:10 PM
I have chosen to not visit this site for a while hoping things would change. This is my first time back. I am still hoping to meet people in the lifestyle. I am looking for friendship and nothing more at this point. Maybe later there could be more. I love the chance to learn new things. I would love to hear from those who have been around for a while and have much to teach us newbies. Everything is fascinating to me.
4/10/2005 8:52:10 AM
I got up this morning with new found determination. I wish that those of you to whom I have written would respond in some way. If you are not interested tell me. It is rude not to respond in some way to thoses who admire you. For those of you that I write, I always look at your profile and interest and make sure that we have like minds. If for some reason all you are doing on the interest selection part of your profile is checking all of the boxes just so you seem more interesting to viewers, STOP. Only check what you are truly interested in, not what you think will find you a match faster. I do not know about everyone else on here, but I would rather you be honest even on that level than to in a way lead up all on. If your match is out there, they will like you for who you really are and not who you pretend to be. Plus if all you are doing is pretending to be interested in things then you are setting yourself up to fail miserably. Not to mention the fact that you are waisting everyone else's time.
4/10/2005 12:37:30 AM
I am sitting here tonight going through all of the messages that I have sent and recieved from all of you wonderful people. I have found, however that for some reason not everyone understands what I am looking for. I do not wish to meet men in the scene for anything other than friendship. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A MALE SUBMISSIVE NOR DO I WISH TO SERVE ANYONE OTHER THAN MY DOM! Is that such a hard thing for people to understand? For any of the ladies that have responded to me I thank you. I hope to meet and get to know many more of you to see what is out there. I know that one of you is what I am looking for, I just have to find you and hope that you are interested in me as well. Until them my search will continue.