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steampunkangel

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JoJoRaven
Okay, here's an update:  I met someone! And he is awesome.  He is everything I was looking for and a little extra.  He's also NOT standing behind me as I write this... nope that's not happening.
I (and we) are still open to friends. We are interested in meeting women to casually dominate as well.  We're open minded and fun, but if you're lame we'll mock you, a lot.  By the way, we read each others emails.

 Looking for: Dominant men between the ages of 21 and 34 (this is non-negotiable) for online or offline flirtation, flings, or possible friends-with-benefits. Looking for a dom or any relationship that grows.

About me: I am a 31-year old submissive masochist straight woman in a polyamorous relationship with my husband. We are not looking to play as a couple, and my husband and I have a very open and honest relationship. I am into edge play, d/s, bondage, rape play and pain. I am not easily tamed.

I'm introverted but not shy, both quiet and talkative, calm and manic. I go for long walks alone. I like to be alone with my head, and I like to be alone with someone I connect with. I'm a big horror fan, and that bleeds over into my sexuality. I'm looking for a knight and a villain wrapped into the same person. I am the living embodiment of the virgin/whore complex.

My hobbies are: reading, academia, cultural studies, social history, blogging, cats, steampunk and other vintage pursuits, horror books comics and movies, 19th century British literature, writing erotica, and fitness

Turn-offs: Protocol, elaborate roleplay that isn't organic in nature, lack of intelligence, men who come on too fast, men who come on too weakly, men who won't take a hint, men who think they can turn me on to monogamy

Turn-ons: Subtlety, being pursued, feeling stalked or hunted, forceful roleplay, intelligent flirtation, men who know how to talk dirty well, strong chemistry, sadists, being made to feel like a degraded angel
1/16/2009 4:56:15 PM
I suppose I'll write more often here, regardless of if anyone is reading.

I want rules. I need rules. I want rules about what to do with myself before I go to sleep at night. I want rules on what I can and can't say. I want rules on how much exercise I should be doing. What I should wear. Not too many, just enough to make me feel owned.

But that can't happen until I'm broken, and I don't know when that will happen.

I'm ready. I want a dom.