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I have been in and out of the lifestyle since I was 16, have had a few sessions and some online however have never found what I’ve been looking for. I will say I would like more experience but know what my interests are and how I would like my ideal situation to be.
What I will explain first and foremost is that BDSM is about control for me. It is not about whipping or flogging my partner, humiliating them, role playing etc etc. I want a man who knows how to take care of a woman, not a boy looking to get his rocks off in a play session.
If I was to say my ideal submissive, it would be a deion between or similar to the characters Brendan from Branded Sanctuary by Joey W. Hill, Donavon from Billionaire Submissive by Joely Sue Burkhart and Aaron from The One Worth Finding by Teresa Silberstern. I understand these are romance novels and works of fiction however they are wonderful examples of what I hope to find. I suppose the closest one would be Teresa Silvertern’s The One Worth Finding because my kink is similar to the two in that story.
To find a straight, single man with a preference to receiving anal to any other kinds of sex and is clean would be a dream. I will admit to also having a desire that he cook and clean and not need constant attention but we are comfortable around each other. I suppose you could say that this is where the other stories I favor come into play.
I am relatively simple in that I want someone to take care of me while, in a way, we take care of each other. I am not looking for an unemployed sugar baby. I respect that if someone can afford to have a live-in 24/7 sub/slave and that is there interest however it is not mine even if I could afford it.
I understand that in some people’s views I may not seem as though I am truly within the lifestyle, but there are different levels to BDSM and one’s involvement within it. There is no one way, right or wrong. It is only what we are comfortable with and interested in individually, the same as any other aspect of vanilla lives.
I am not looking to relocate or do online. If this is what you are seeking please refrain from wasting both our times. If you are looking to exchange messages in order to have a thrill, then I suggest watching some videos and imagining yourself in whichever position you prefer.
Dominants seeking to contact me to inform me that they can show me the joys of submitting, etc. etc., I have no respect for.
I know who I am. I know I am a dominant and I know what I want. The BDSM scene doesn’t seem all that big here, which is no surprise considering this is a small area. However, I would like to see if this website may help me find what I am searching for. Also, please be in my age range. I am not one for older males.
Please contact me via messages if you would like to talk.
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