For those that don't know, you can mouse over the message and see what it says without actually opening the e-mail.  That is how you can see what's in it without actually opening it.  This is an explanation for the skeptic that asked how I read the e-mail to see that what the person said was not nice. 

If I delete your mail without reading it, there is a reason.  Perhaps you've said something "first e-mail inappropriate" like you want me to be your pig or screw other guys.  Maybe you've talked about some pretty graphic and sexual things in your introduction e-mail.  Crass.  Or the worse ever is you've cut and pasted this super long introduction that you keep on your desktop so that you can reply to any new girl that logs on.

In either case, I don't delete e-mails that are sincere and where someone has clearly taken the time to introduce themselves, to acknowledge that they've read my e-mail or simply just to say something kind. 

Just clarifying for those that are going to be upset that I deleted their e-mail unread.