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| Scorpio, fire dragon, and currently scoring as INTP, for those who take stock in such things. I'm Wiccan; I don't practice as much as some, but I do believe in living life following the precept of doing no harm. Words other people use to describe me: Funny, sweet, charming, witty, smart, passionate. I'm fun-loving, open-minded, and extremely adventurous and experimental. Also, pretty dirty. :)
I am an exceedingly nice person, but please don't mistake my kindness for weakness. Those who prove themselves to be cruel, dishonest, self-absorbed, selfish, or drama-mongers will find themselves coldly deposited at the curb. I am gentle, understanding, and giving as a default, but don't cross me; it won't be fun for either of us.
I'm a server, barista, and an admitted dilettante. I love novelty and exploration, so I have tried all sorts of stuff for the sake of adventure, but there are so many intriguing things in the world that I never manage to actually master anything. I have 3/4 of a B.S. degree in Wildlife Biology, for example. Ideally, you should have an appreciation for geeks if you hang out with me; bonus points if you find the shy, awkward type endearing. I fully embrace that I am a big geek, a geek-of-all-trades, if you will.. I love science, technology, gadgets, video games, Guitar Hero, board games, I did living history at the Ren Faire for four seasons…
I'm shy in new social situations, but I have an exhibitionistic streak that cannot be denied! I began doing theater at age five and fell in love with it immediately. It wasn't until college that I found my niche in improv; I really hope to get back into it soon. There's something about performing and entertaining people that is incredibly energizing and it satisfies some very deep-rooted needs.
I also have a weird kink for being a teaching tool (my guess is it's the education factor), so YES, I want to be your demo bottom! I thought you'd never ask. :]
Lastly, I am a trained tea server of The Northern California Ladies' Tea and Discussion Society, which is located around the SF Bay Area.
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What I like..
Outside the bedroom: Music, photography, art, books, nature, hiking, science, camping, and having random adventures. I love to travel and I jump on any opportunity to experience new places, people, and cultures. I enjoy cooking and baking (and feeding people) and, as an unabashed hedonist, I feel very passionately about good wine, beer, coffee, and food. :)
Language, aesthetics, and the arts are very important to me. The urge to express myself is strong; I am primarily a photographer (some of my work is in my pictures), but I also dabble in writing, drawing, painting, and creating things. Some of my drawings can be seen here, but I haven't much formal training, so be forewarned that they are nowhere near perfect.
Kink-wise: My two super favorite things are barehanded spanking and being dominated. I really enjoy TPE, as I find being submissive to my Dom partners in and out of the bedroom to be immensely pleasurable; for me the D/s dynamic can exist entirely as its own thing. Rope, cuffs, blindfolds, gags, hair pulling, scratching, floggers, pain tempered with pleasure, and sensation play are also high on my list. I'm very service-oriented and am most happy and fulfilled when doing things for others, making them happy, etc. I felt really content and whole during my service relationship, which opened up my eyes to something I hadn't even realized I'd been missing.
While my motivation is more about the D/s than the pain, I'm currently a light-to-moderate masochist and I would love to be the muse and canvas of a creative, devious sadist. I love to hand my body and mind over to a Dominant, to be used as a plaything, with the marks on my skin as treasured souvenirs. I love rope and artistic ties; I have dorky, fan-like admiration for those who are skilled and fluent. Being tied up takes me away to the most blissful, happy place... such an amazing thing, rope.
I find relief and joy in submission and I enjoy serving and making people happy. Because of this, I'm pretty open to what turns other people on.. I get pleasure from giving pleasure and from seeing the ecstasy of those I care about. I don't have many hard limits; once trust and rapport have been established, I always say that if it's dirty, I can probably be talked into it. :)
I'd love to meet play partners and people who would like to attend/be attended to/play at events, especially those able and willing to explore deeper, long-term relationships. I'm told that I'm very reactive and a lot of fun to beat -- I invite you to try it! :]
I am cool with casual play relationships and friends-with-benefits situations, but ultimately, I am hoping to explore more with the right person and my heart goes squeeeee! at the thought of maybe being owned some day. In a Domme, I seek to exist for the pleasure of a sensual sadist. I have many skills and talents that might please you, in exchange for beatings, perhaps? I would love to attend to you at an event, if you have need of polite and charming company for an evening.
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