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35 year old Dom with Daddy Dom tendencies looking for a sane play partner/long term submissive/partner-in-crime/tpe slave. I'm currently in Cincinnati, but, I call San Francisco home.
We can talk about my likes, my wants, my needs, and my limits, but, let's start with my deal-breakers:
- Smoking Tobacco
- Using Heroin, Meth, Crack, Cocaine, or similar.
Please, if you smoke or abuse hard drugs, please don't bother contacting me. I'm generally a pretty open guy, but, I don't like to kiss an ashtray, and I won't get involved with anyone who's abusing drugs.
I'm a very quiet (in public), well educated, laid-back Dom who's looking for someone to share my life with. Professionally, I take a 'walk softly and bring a big hammer' approach to things. I'm usually the guy that people underestimate until there's a crisis or defining moment, then I 'spring' into action and take charge -- fixing problems along the way.
I do tend to work a lot -- I generally put in 40-80 hour work weeks -- and when I disconnect I usually do just that: disconnect. My phone goes on silent, my work laptops get turned off, and I go into relax mode. My hobbies include blowing glass, building my own telescopes, welding, building and restoring pinball machines, and cooking.
During the work week, my days start around 5AM -- I work out early, come back to the home (or hotel if I'm traveling) to shower, shave, and get dressed, then I'm off to work. I usually take a late lunch, and leave work around 6 at night. If I'm at home during the evening, my nights consist of reading, cooking dinner, and cleaning up on things that need to be taken care of around the home.
During the weekend, I spend time focusing on my hobbies.
About my kink and my kink preferences:
Generally speaking, I expect to have a vanilla-esq relationship outside of the bedroom, and full submission in the bedroom. It's my believe that the wife/woman should take care of the interior of the home while the man should be taking care of the outside of the home. While I love the 1950's rhetoric, I'm a realist -- if you want to work during the day, you're more than welcome to do so, but it's my belief that the woman should serve in the household when she's there. Generally speaking, in the bedroom, I do utilize full submission to the maximum benefit. Spanking, biting, choking, and restraints are all items that I'm very comfortable with. Consensual non-consent is something that is very appealing to me, and it helps if you're comfortable with that, but, I can work around it if you aren't.
What I'm looking for:
Ultimately, I'm looking for a partner in crime. Someone who's comfortable going on road trips, someone who's comfortable traveling during the weekend, and someone who understand that even though I might not ultimately say the words, "I love you," that the woman that I choose to allow in my life has my heart and my soul and I will take care of her and protect her with every fiber of my being.
If you'd like to know more, just ask. I don't bite that hard...
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