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About soineedspanked

i left, but, came back, hoping...

I have a question.....how does someone who wants to please so badly tell a Dominant that she isn't interested.  I have tried to be polite and respectful, but, it's not easy when I am told I am fake, a fraud (what's the difference?), or a man.  When I am called names (and not in a good way).  And, when I am told I will be reported (I'm not sure to who--the collarme police?--it does conjure up images of getting sent to the principal's office or called inside by my mom by my first, middle, and last name).  I want to please, but I am tired of being treated badly here by many Dominants who think that they have the right to be mean just because there is a power differential (and, frankly, int my opinion and despite the fact others may disagree, that power difference really doesn't exist unless I choose to submit to you).

I'm just asking for some advice about how to be polite and decent when I have no interest in someone; and, at least decent when someone is calling me names?

Thank you.

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