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| i am separated (amicably) and have, by choice, not been in a relationhip for several months. However, i am now actively seeking a new relationship.
i have been interested in D/s for over fifteen years and have had 3 “significant” long term relationships, and a few fun encounters. It has been and will continue to be a wonderful learning curve, and i know pretty much what does and does not work for me in a relationship.
i have a career and teenagers which does not permit me to be a 24/7 submissive. Having said that i am loyal, passionate and have a very giving nature and it is my absolute joy and privilege to serve my Master or Dominant.
i'm not big into pain or humiliation, but i am interested in bondage, spanking, flogging and submitting to the right person, and dressing to please. i enjoy being controlled, used and owned "mentally, physically and emotionally". i prefer someone caring who isn't afraid of showing his affectionate side but will quickly correct me if i disobey (which i never do willfully) or displease him. i respond well to rules and protocol.
A little more about me : i'm creative, hard-working, driven, intelligent, well educated, a bit geeky, i love fine dining, movies and TV, traveling, reading and have an insatiable desire to be always learning new things. Google is my daily brain food! i stay up way too late sometimes because i don't want to put a book down or stop researching something or other. i love to cook, entertain, meet people, and have fun. i am financially very stable (own home, etc.) and enjoy a comfortable lifestyle.
Why am i filling in my profile with a lot of non-sexual stuff? Because a D/s relationship is first and foremost a RELATIONSHIP. You have to like each other, earn each others respect and trust before anything even remotely D/s can develop.
i am not really interested in quick hook-ups, and will NOT do anything sexual with random men i have never met. If you come at me with disrespect, i WILL fire back with sarcasm and mockery. i am pretty intuitive and can usually make a judgement from an initial email if there is anything worth perusing.
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