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silenceisdeadly

Silenus
Male Dominant, 50, Kingston,ON
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About silenceisdeadly

It's odd that I get just as much mail here with no profile up, as when I had a profile full of details and pictures.


I'll float in and out of video chat.. if you're dying to see what I look like.. or if the curiosity and mystery of all that is CM just has that hold on ya' and you HAVE to make sure I'm a girl lol.. well, my interests are varied. For now, I'm just lookin' for like-minded people to talk to. Wow me, someone. Pleaseeee wake me up.

You know, sometimes this shit seems so trivial. In the grand scheme of things, I want someone who touches my soul more than my body. I want too much maybe. 

It's so hard to feel sorry for someone who victimizes everyone around them. As adults we're supposed to have some inclination of what is right and wrong, and certainly when they are such OBVIOUS extremes as in this case. Just venting. No need to reply to this one guys. 

 

I'll never understand some people. 

So I have a legit question. Why do men who like to dress as women have to get as exaggerated as possible with it? I can't say that I understand the fetish, but I don't judge anyone who does it... but really.. what real woman decks herself out like that all the time? Lol.. . you HAVE to know what I'm talking about.. with the crazy amounts of makeup and the thigh highs and heels.... my sister brought a cross dresser around once that was better dressed and accessorized than we were at the time lol. It just makes me laugh. Figured someone else might share in the observation, don't get mad guys! :)

Thanks for all the responses to my journal. Now for a new question. Do you think you can be switch, or are people that label themselves as such just confused? 

 

Personally, I've tried both sides of the coin and I feel the dynamic all depends on the people. There are only a handful of men if even that I'd feel comfortable actually letting my guard down and submitting to. I probably could never submit to a woman... not because I think less of them or anything but because I am sort of bold when it comes to women lol. Rambling a little, getting off task. 

 

Yeah, so thoughts on "switches." Is life really black and white enough to say you're one or the other no exceptions? Are there such absolutes? 

Serious question: Do you think any of you are completely honest with at least one person in your life? I'm talkin' no holding back, no editing your thoughts. You say what you think and they accept you. 

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