Collarspace.com

I'm tired of this place, I'm taking a break.



To the natural Dominant:

You will find me to be intelligent, witty, sensual, honest, sincere, kind-hearted, obedient (well, ok, with a little need of assistance now and again), playfull, creative, open, adventurous, passionate, fiercely loyal, sincere, honest, soft, loving & caring.

You are in search of:

- A natural submissive with a slave heart

- Something unique & multi-faceted.

- A long term relationship based on mutual respect, honesty, trust, laughter and open communication

- The one who completes you. Your best friend, confidant, lover & cherrished property.

- Intensity


To the Player

you will find me intelligent enough to see thru your game.

you will find I don't perceive your lack of manner's as dominance.

your self proclaimed title will not make me drop to my knees in awe!

This is NOT like vanilla dating. I will NOT invite you over for a spanking session after our 3rd online chat.




I get bored easily, I don't like small talk, I like fun, flirtatious, easy going, natural kind of conversation.

I like to discuss anything from outer space to the mathematics behind jazz.

Yes, I'm flirtatious, but that doesn't make me a bimbo. Yes, I am submissive, but, I don't like to be pressured in any way (in the beginning of the "getting to know each other" phase. I feel a secure Dominant will allow me to come to him in my own time. And no, I don't want an online relationship, I crave to take this into real life, but it does take a little time. What? Not enough patience? Too bad, you don't know what you're missing.



6/20/2009 1:05:48 PM
      Inspire me, and allow me to Inspire you!



6/14/2009 11:46:49 AM
Ok, I've gone thru the entire Haystack!

WHERE is the DAMN needle?



5/25/2009 9:47:02 AM

I always felt posting negative experiences  took away from what you really tried to accomplish with your profile.  Negative attracts negative. 

I've always tried to attract the positive.  However, it never seizes to amaze me how so many Dom's (and I can only speak about Dom's since I do not read any submissive profiles) complain, and even whine about how many fakes, and game players there are on this site.

I feel, (and this is just my opinion, so please, no nasty emails)  most Dom's on this site aren't looking for anything real, they are looking for an unattainable fantasy. 

I respect those Dominants who clearly state in their profiles they are not looking for 24/7, just a play partner.  At least they are honest with themselves, as well as being honest with others. 

In my screen name I identify myself as a slave.  I know I have the potential to be just that. Bringing the potential into reality is a journey, not a starting out point.  

A natural process takes place when a man and a woman are attracted to each other.  Attraction can have many forms.  The more meaningful the attraction, the better the chance of it being a lasting one.

I am in search of a natural Dominant.  One who enjoys going thru the steps of achieving lasting Power Exchange. Not something that is demanded, but given freely with time. If the power is not mine to give, how can it be called an exchange?

I also like to clarify the following;  I do not view submission as a "gift" as so many do here.  Submission is a deeply rooted
need which increases as my attraction to the Dominant grows.  It is simply one piece of the puzzle.  Dominance represents the missing piece. 

Judging by the profiles I've read, I often wonder if I too am not searching for the unattainable?  However, anything less would never do.  

9/14/2008 1:31:12 PM

As much as he loves the intensity of the physical aspect.  In her, he has found the one who truly loves the power exchange, lives for it, and craves it. He understands her need to go far beyond the physical control he exerts over his property. He understands her need. The need to be owned, heart, mind, body and soul. He feels it as well. She completes him, satisfying the primal need to control what is his.

Without the mental aspect and connection, there will never be lasting physical satisfaction.

6/4/2007 4:20:03 PM
Touch only to cause me pain, don't touch at all.
  Touch only to bring me pleasure, don't touch at all.
  Touch me because you care... please, never stop touching.