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Hi!

I am a single professional looking for a partner for r/l BDSM activities. Although I am primarily Dom I am prepared to switch a bit, especially early on to build trust. I have a WIDE variety of interests in both the BDSM and vanilla worlds and am looking for someone to share as many as possible with me. While I would really like to find someone for a long-term relationship, I would gladly settle for exploring my desires in a "no strings attached" environment. Age is a non-issue with me. I am active in tobacco prevention, so if you smoke, I'll respect that but ask you not to do it around me. I am a non-drinker but have no problem with the responsible use of alcohol. Illegal drugs are a deal breaker. Beyond that, just email me, and we'll talk.

I've had a couple of messages from sub males so want to make it clear that I'm only interested in ladies.

5/19/2005 6:52:37 PM
Do me a favor, please! Don't make up a nickname for yourself in our emails, talk about getting supplies or following my orders, or in some other way make me think you're willing to go beyond email unless you really are. I don't know how I can make it more clear that I'm sick of relationships, if you can call them that, that are only words. I've exchanged enough words with ladies over the past ?? years to fill an encyclopedia, and I'm tired of it! I need a friend/partner to give me a hug when I've had a day like today and so many others the last few months, even if it's the weekend coming up: someone who will lovingly give me the control that I have none of at work: someone who will fill the giant hole in my life. Where is that lady? I need you NOW!
5/3/2005 2:39:55 PM
Games...Why do people play them? I've met people here who were fine as long as all I wanted to do was cyber. I think my profile is about as clear as it can be that I'm not interested in any realtionship that has no chance of leading to r/l. They say that's fine and what they want, but when it comes to moving from words to actions, things come to an abrupt end. Of course, it doesn't just happen here. Daily I hear people talk about the "Golden Rule" then ignore it when dealing with those in their charge and often the most vulnerable within that group. I've been taught very differently, so I can't understand nor accept this way of doing things.

Is there one lady on here who is local for me and willing to just take me at my word and stick to hers? If so, is it you?
3/29/2005 4:58:06 PM
Why so long a search? What I seek is simple: a lady to share my passions and my life - be it full or part time. In the vanilla world, I make "friendly acquaintances" easily. These bring joy to me when I am in their company. Yet, when it comes to finding one who will fill the void in my life - a lover, a traveling companion, a person to bring light to the dark hours alone, the search is endless. Where is she? Why is she so hard to find?