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If you can not make a complete thought do not message me. If your email is less than one sentence I will NOT reply. I am in no way looking to ever be a Dominant, I am a submissive and that is all I wish to be, do not message if you can't grasp that concept.
My name is willow, I am a 35 year old submissive in Oklahoma City. Every day with me is like an adventure. If somebody wants to take that ride, keep reading and then message me.
When I thought about writing this I wasn't sure what to write. I mean what do people want to know. I am sure there is a set out there who want to know how talented, sexually, I am, or even how obedient I am. Well in all honesty, I am new to this lifestyle, only in for a couple of years. I can tell you what I want, what I desire and hope that is what you want to know.
In the last 12 years I have come to realize there is more to a relationship than sex, a lot more and that is what I desire. Don't get me wrong, I do love sex, I am not a prude by any sense, I just think that a relationship, whether it be equal shares, or D/s there is more to it than sex and play. What I desire is, a loving, considerate, compassionate yet commandeering man. I am a person who is led by touch. I love to hug, I love to kiss, and even most basically I love to be touched. A simple touch, even if I am not being spoken to at the time, but simply His fingers through my hair, or down my back, or whatever may be, I am a happy girl. It isn't that I always have to be the center of attention, but I do want to be recognized as a Dominant's most prized possession. I am not in this to be used and abused and thrown away when tired of me. I want to be with someone and truly be with them, mind, body, and spirit.
I want a Man who can teach me and guide me to be a better, obedient submissive. I want to do for Him, and be praised when I have done well and punished when I am out of line. I do not want someone who will just play hard and then ignore me when their day has been bad, or when they have better things to do. I want someone who will not only communicate how I am to behave and what rules I am to follow, but also communicate how they feel and what their desires are. I desire to not only be in service to someone, but to know them wholly and be able to please them fully.
When I said I am new to this that means I am still learning what things are and what I say is a limit now may not always be, but I do desire a man who can understand that if I say its a limit I truly mean it's a limit and allow me the time to come around without force. I want to learn so much, but also be welcome to say no when I know it isn't right. There are many limits that I will not even consider, and I wish that to be respected. If you think my above statement means that you can talk me into changing my mind on all my limits you are wrong. I know my body, I know my mind and I know what I can take. I want someone who will not only respect that but learn what my body, mind, and spirit can take and then guide me by that knowledge.
There are parts of me I will not change, I do not care what ones religion is, but I hold mine close to me and don't ever plan on changing that. I am a Christian, and yes before anyone even asks, I can be a Christian and love to get my ass beat from time to time. I also love to sing, dance, and act. I desire to not only serve a man wholly, but also have a job of my own, feel as if I have a purpose not only to Him, but to the world as well. I do not want to be at home, barefoot, pregnant, and broke. (Though I do want kids).
I am 32 years old, I do know how to have a good time, but I don't wish to party all the time. I want to settle down, spend time with someone, have kids, and be an adult as well as occasionally allowing the child within to come out. I have, over the years, had enough of the game playing, enough of the mind games. I do not want mind games, do not want a "mind fuck" I want something that transcends games and something that will make me explore myself and whoever I submit to wholly.
The long and short of it is, I want someone who is in this for the long haul, so to speak, and someone who will take my best interests and in to consideration. I am more than a simple toy for a Dominant to play with, I am a prized possession waiting to be claimed and put to good use as well as adored for what I am and who I am. If you think that this is you please contact me, I look forward to hearing from you
I want a Master who will not only respect me and have compassion for me, but a strong hand to guide and discipline me when necessary. I don't want someone who lets themselves be walked all over, if I wanted that I would stay in the vanilla world. You must be strong, controlling, but know when the time is to step back and let me have a moment of my own. If you are a beginner, don't message me. I don't have any desire to learn while you learn, if I am giving myself over to someone, mind body and spirit, that person needs to know what they are doing and how to manage themselves as well as someone else. Most importantly, he must be financially secure as I will not move into a relationship where finances are a problem..I have that now and it is not how I wish to spend the rest of my life. If that is You, please message me.
In the time I have had this profile, I have come to realize that apparently one more thing needs to be added to my profile. I work full time, I will continue to work full time, and if that is a problem do not message me.
I may be a submissive, it is my desire and who I am, but I am NOT a mindless drone, nor am I a doormat to be walked all over. I do not have any intention of becoming a mindless drone or a doormat to please someone. If you can be happy with someone who has a mind of their own, but also a desire to please another and serve him then feel free to message me.
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