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scarecrow215

I am a Dominant male who enjoys life, I am not a switch. I am very much into the outdoors, days at the beach, riding my motorcycle, enjoying sunsets and sunrises, hanging with friends, BBQ's, photography, kayaking, riding bicycles at the beach. I enjoy the finer things in life as much as I enjoy a dive meeting friends. In my professional life, I need to appear to be vanilla and that my partner is truly that in every respect, she will be respected and treated well, but in the bedroom, you are completely submissive and enjoy that. You know that there is a difference between the bedroom and the boardroom. I am looking for a submissive female, who can act vanilla to the outside world and is submissive in the bedroom. You like being outdoors, have self respect and knows the difference between being treated with respect and being treated like a doormat. You find pleasure in pleasing someone not just sexually. You are slim and enjoy exercising, and watching what you eat, in order to stay slim. You will take care of your body as well as your soul. If you have children, they will always be treated with respect, honor and kindness, they will have no knowledge of anything that we do unless you tell them. They should grow happy and loved, so they can be who they are going to be. After being in this lifestyle for a while there are a few things that I know to be true.... 1. Trust, Respect and Loyalty can not be demanded, they have to be earned. 2. Honesty, Kindness and Integrity are given freely. 3. Communication is Necessary for all to be safe and have fun. 4. A sense of humor and a need to please are important. I have been on this site now for about 6 months consistently, I have noticed that there are lots of people who say that they are subs, but in actuality they are scam artists looking for a quick hand out. To those who are either looking for a free hand out or those who are looking to Bully, GO AWAY! You are neither a Dom or a sub and you destroy the very fabric of what this lifestyle is about. If you ask any sub who has been with their Dom for any length of time, they are a sub out of respect, Loyalty and Trust, not fear. They gladly take the spanking from their Dom because they know their Dom will never hurt them and they know their Dom will be the first to always protect them. There is a line of communication between the Dom and the sub that allows each to know the others Psyche and it allows them to push the envelope all the further. So if you are fake, then go away.... no one needs you or your BS. I am fortunate to make enough money that I can do pretty much what I want when I want. I also have the ability to relocate whomever I want. However, I will not even think of relocating you unless I have met you face to face. I wont send money or gift cards or anything until we have met and established some kind of rapport. If you are interested in finding out more about me then contact me and ask I will be happy to entertain any questions. Mr. Scarecrow