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Looking curiously about. I'm open to finding gifts from the universe here. No expectations, just insatiable curiosity.
Update: I'm on here *very* rarely, since 2 weeks after creating my profile I learned we're having young'ns. This makes playing and scening somewhat off the table right now. Dammit. Grr. Snarl.
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It is hard for me to remember sometimes that just because I have always known a rule and 90% of the people around me accept that rule as "truth", that does not in fact make it universal truth.
I will consider taking an order from someone if and only if I have come to know that person enough to trust them with my obediance. I will never sub/obey until there has been detailed discussion of what everyone involved needs to be safe, wants from the situation, and expects as an outcome.
Complete strangers giving me instructions violates, say, every single facet of this. I have too much respect for myself, my partners, and your partners to slavishly loll my tongue and nod and do what I'm told until the situation is one where that is appropriate and safe.
Playing abandoning all mental control to someone is freaking fantastic. But at the end of the day I am always, always responsible for knowing I have placed myself in a safe situation.
Am I completely whack in this?
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