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| I am interested in good friends and good slaves. if you are here for sex or genital play i am not the one.
an interest in pain and sensory exploration can help but is not required a commitment to service and the joy to serve is
I hear some Dom/mes lead there sub/slaves down the garden path whereas I tend to throw them over the cliff … I CAN give garden paths (in fact i LOVE creating gardens of many kinds and am always working on some natural gardening projects or another … the more you work with me the more I am willing to work with you
I am interested in service subs/ slaves who can handle themselves in the woods, as well as assist me in polite and risqué company. they need to be able to present vanilla, and be able to honor and integrate in my taoist path and my various tastes. I am interested in life companions who are interested in my life interests and can flow with my spriteish awe of nature. they will participate in natural gardening projects. and we will eat together from natures harvest. the reward for not frustrating me and making me happy? Why BDsM play of course ;)
I also seek friendships and play with Dom/mes and switches, as well as available subs and slaves of varied experience i have NO interest in anyones genitalia just their interest in and threshold for pain and other sensory exploration; fire, wax, ice, knifes, floggers . . .
My personal history in BDSM began in 2000 when my “hub” blessed me with six live in slaves of varied experiences. i learned what i know today through self exploration, discussion and practice with many in the local community and with a few cross country ... i have always enjoyed seeing where the edge is, ... you won't get there by being pushy. trust is essential as you're able to entertain me. oh yeah that is yOUR yob. ok enough of that.
from 2004 - 2010 i took care of family my mom and I missed many friends here greatly
i'm slowly getting back into the swing of things
My greatest joy from BDSM is the bonds with Life Style family I have come to love. Knowing there are others who are willing to accept me for me has been invaluable and now that I am back I look forward to giving where I can and receiving where it's appropriate. truly that's been me all along anyway
Most of all having an outlet for intimate experience without the "sexual/sensual" requirements has given me personal strength.
FINALLY, I enjoy giving and receive sensational touch on MY terms.
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my present profession is personal assistant with clients i do everything i am physically able to (no genitalia or abuse) from companionship to natural gardening, driving people locally and otr, house maintenance, pet and house sitting, life coach, camping, getting out, shopping, appointments, cooking, ... ... ... it has been some time in the building but it's just been a joy in the creation. |
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before my husband, i was taking in "slaves" off the street. free room and board to help take care of my house plus help getting them on there feet again and their own housing if they wanted. my husband to be was one of those, then i married him. my "hub"(husband/Master) introduced me to BDsM and adopted six slaves for me. i was his slave they were "my slaves" our house lasted maybe 3 years before we got tired of playing mommy and daddy (i was frustrated they didn't listen as well as my previous "slaves") and we all dispersed. still during that time we had made a lot of friends, gotten a lot of practice in a variety of techniques and i had learned a lot from many others with more experience as well as learning i enjoyed being a mistress as long as i got to make the rules, or the rules make sense and are followed, go figure.
1. be nice
2. don't hurt anyone |
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not currently looking
though if i were
what i expect form my subs or slaves is sincerity and honesty. believe me i am passionate but not sexual, so if you are looking for sex from your Mistress you may as well keep looking. straight up mostly i'm a tomboy obviously i like having a womanly side too but that only comes out when i'm relaxed in the company of those i trust. how my sub/slaves gain my trust is to accept me for the nature nut that i am. i prefer letting my sub/slaves dress me as a reward for being good, which is by not frustrating me, by listening to me, by learning from me, even by teaching me, by enjoying my company, and by politely helping me in "proper"society when i need the help. sometimes my savage side gets rebellious and doesn't want to play with modern society. i would like a live in situation eventually, but not until i am sure that i am not going to be a Mommy Domme. in summary, subs and slaves that accept i'm not so interested in the trappings of the modern world, will love and get along with me the best. i can be very patient with those who put forth effort and have compassion still, they will be expected to adapt to me not the other way around, they will be expected to listen to me and learn my ways and work to a goal of living with me in community setting. they will have their own means. they will get to dress me up in my womanly wiles for special occasion as a reward for keeping me happy in my prevailing world. the more fun we have ... the more special occasions we can have. Any Questions? |
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what i expect form my subs or slaves is sincerity and honesty believe me i am passionate but not sexual, so if you are looking for sex from your Mistress you may as well keep looking. straight up mostly i'm a tomboy obviously i like having a womanly side too but that only comes out when i'm relaxed in the company of those i trust. how my sub/slaves gain my trust is to accept me for the nature nut that i am. i prefer letting my sub/slaves dress me as a reward for being good, which is by not frustrating me, by listening to me, by learning from me, even by teaching me, by enjoying my company, and by politely helping me fit into "proper"society when i need the help. sometimes my savage side gets rebellious and doesn't want to play with modern society and needs some gentle reminding that this time it is for the family's benefit for me to fit in just this once. i would like a live in situation eventually, but not until i am sure that i am not going to be a Mommy Domme again. i spent a LOT of time money and energy being a Mommy Domme in the past and as it turned out none of my slaves seemed to like the kind of Mommy i was. oh well i thought $200/m for room, board, and training was a hell of a deal. c'est la vie. i learned a lot. and that is, in summary, subs and slaves that accept i am not much a part of the modern world, they will be expected to adapt to me not the other way around, they will be expected to listen to me and learn my ways and work to a goal of living with me in a community setting. they will have their own means. they will help me adjust to the modern world as needed. they will get to dress me up in my womanly wiles for special occasion as a reward for keeping me happy in my pervailing world. the more fun we have ... the more special occations we can have. Any Questions? |
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what i expect form my subs or slaves is sincerity and honesty believe me i am passionate but not sexual, so if you are looking for sex from your Mistress you may as well keep looking. straight up mostly i'm a tomboy obviously i like having a womanly side too but that only comes out when i'm relaxed in the company of those i trust. how my sub/slaves gain my trust is to accept me for the nature nut that i am. i prefer letting my sub/slaves dress me as a reward for being good, which is by not frustrating me, by listening to me, by learning from me, even by teaching me, by enjoying my company, and by politely helping me fit into "proper"society when i need the help. sometimes my savage side gets rebellious and doesn't want to play with modern society and needs some gentle reminding that this time it is for the family's benefit for me to fit in just this once. i would like a live in situation eventually, but not until i am sure that i am not going to be a Mommy Domme again. i spent a LOT of time money and energy being a Mommy Domme in the past and as it turned out none of my slaves seemed to like the kind of Mommy i was. oh well i thought $200/m for room, board, and training was a hell of a deal. c'est la vie. i learned a lot. and that is, in summary, subs and slaves that accept i am not much a part of the modern world, they will be expected to adapt to me not the other way around, they will be expected to listen to me and learn my ways and work to a goal of living with me in a community setting. they will have their own means. they will help me adjust to the modern world as needed. they will get to dress me up in my womanly wiles for special occasion as a reward for keeping me happy in my pervailing world. the more fun we have ... the more special occations we can have. Any Questions? |
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what i expect form my subs or slaves is sincerity and honesty believe me i am passionate but not sexual, so if you are looking for sex from your Mistress you may as well keep looking. straight up mostly i'm a tomboy obviously i like having a womanly side too but that only comes out when i'm relaxed in the company of those i trust. how my sub/slaves gain my trust is to accept me for the nature nut that i am. i prefer letting my sub/slaves dress me as a reward for being good, which is by not frustrating me, by listening to me, by learning from me, even by teaching me, by enjoying my company, and by politely helping me fit into "proper"society when i need the help. sometimes my savage side gets rebellious and doesn't want to play with modern society and needs some gentle reminding that this time it is for the family's benefit for me to fit in just this once. i would like a live in situation eventually, but not until i am sure that i am not going to be a Mommy Domme again. i spent a LOT of time money and energy being a Mommy Domme in the past and as it turned out none of my slaves seemed to like the kind of Mommy i was. oh well i thought $200/m for room, board, and training was a hell of a deal. c'est la vie. i learned a lot. and that is, in summary, subs and slaves that accept i am not much a part of the modern world, they will be expected to adapt to me not the other way around, they will be expected to listen to me and learn my ways and work to a goal of living with me in a community setting. they will have their own means. they will help me adjust to the modern world as needed. they will get to dress me up in my womanly wiles for special occasion as a reward for keeping me happy in my pervailing world. the more fun we have ... the more special occations we can have. Any Questions? |
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