Hi! Myself male 33, into the alternative lifestyle, and an innately submissive person. Hailing from a conservative part of India, where the lifestyle is almost dormant, my experiences have been limited to the internet only. I’m single by choice despite insurmountable parental pressure, as I am looking for a Dominant only as my other half, rather better half. Otherwise, to marry just for the sake of parental satisfaction, would be like doing injustice to myself and the woman I marry.

I have this strong conviction derived from my life experiences that countries, provinces, corporations, institutions, households governed and run by women are always better administered. This is because a woman is mentally tougher (she can be physically as well), firm, decisive, agile, artistic, innovative, intrinsic and possesses greater communication skills. Qualities that the purported male chauvinist dismisses at his own peril, only to remain grumbling and unhappy in life.

However, S/M or conjugal relations should not be such where the male slave/husband is treated as a mere plaything, a sex toy having no space for him. Rather, the Dominant should allow the slave to grow under Her tutelage, and take pride in the fact that a near useless being has gained success in life only because of Her able moulding. And the slave should rejoice at the fact that he has been adopted by a superior being. It should be a blissful co-existence, ensuring advancements in professional, financial, mental, physical, domestic, sexual and spiritual domains for both (the Dominant always standing first).

I eagerly await my better half. May the Lord bless the search.