Greetings all!

Why...

am I here? In the main for a little research, I wondered if this might be an ideal avenue to find the type of man I look for, as he would come with a pretty unusual spec, not uncommon to many here, but with a couple of other features not usually described. Failing that, I'd be more than happy to meet like minded individuals and strike up a conversation.

What...

am I looking for? This is the difficult bit to define however it is pretty specific. As a starting point, perhaps take a quick look at the image uploaded which may help. ...Right: if you have returned to reading here, then the general things I am interested in are listed below within the check box section, however this is not an exhaustive list, nor is it a list of tastes I have experimented with. One further word about the D/s sphere. I'm definitely only submissive, and that only to the right person, rather than sub in general. I'm not particularly comfortable personally to switch, and I don't wish to dominate my partner.

Attributes...

for the lucky candidate to make it through the net

• I'd like all the normal things on a chap, sorry no chapettes for the relationship sense. I'm not interested in short term liaisons, and more focused on building friendships which might have a chance to endure.
• I am looking to meet sentient and challenging people able to hold a conversation, fit normally into vanilla life, and do not live and breathe "the scene" per se. What happens at home and in privacy is of far greater interest to me. I'm not wholly adverse to the idea of the odd trip to an event but in the main, its an interesting private life which attracts me.
• Ideally it would be preferable to meet someone with a similar background, education and profession. I am a university graduate with a professional career, and looking for someone with the same faith.
• Additionally, it would be most satisfying to become involved with someone who can spar ably with me, in the main, successfully.
• Monogamy and fidelity - while I do appreciate and respect others choices in different types of relationships, and combinations of romantically and/or physically involved people, my sole preference is to be involved with a single dominant man.
• Physical looks - 10 fingers and 10 toes are a prerequisite, although, if a toe or two were missing, that might not disqualify an otherwise suitable applicant. Fingers on the other hand... [given my interests] would be preferably all there and attached to a strong palm!!
• Interests - I enjoy skiing, skating and the odd racquet sport, as well as roller blading but will admit I do not do these with regularity these days, [clearly in need of a catalyst!]
• Discretion - this goes without saying as essential and two ways!