Quietly the submissive heart waits,
In patient acceptance of all that life was, is, and will be.
Unwilling to submit just for the sake of submission or just for the quenching of these secret desires,
At the same time harboring this silent aching yearning.
Exploring the richness of life in this moment, hoping to find someone to share it and the moments yet to come, wondering if that person will be someone who, perchance, can be the ying for my yang, the outlet for my desires, the receptacle for what I have to offer, the balance of my power.

"To know that you were with ine who cared for you, and who understood every fiber of your being, and who would not abandon you in even the most desperate of circumstances, that was the most precious relationship a person could have..." ~Brisingr

i am looking for a match for living life. A man who shares my enthusiasm for adventure, travel, music, reading, conversations, and exploring nature is preferred to someone whose primary goal in a relationship is BDSM compatibility. He must be someone who shares my interests, values, humor and laughter, integrity, authenticity, and intelligence first and foremost. Life has taught me that my submission is sacred. There is so much out there to live, learn, experience, and enjoy. Fulfillment, for me, comes from the quiet simple moments that abound in the everyday. Excitement comes from the adventures.

i am looking for a man who can keep engaged alongside my mind and spirit. Without that, submission, on any level, will not be authentic and i will not waste either of our time or energies forcing it to happen. My submission cries out to be harnessed, trained, nurtured, and balanced, not controlled or manipulated.

Currently, my vision for the future includes the co-creation of a family, hearth, and home with a husband. Right now, i have a career, friends, and am pursuing my own personal interests and dreams. How the latter will change and give way to the former will only be known as my relationship with a husband (and, hopefully Master) unfolds and such a relationship needs more than a power exchange dynamic. Always, i am open and receptive to all possibilities. If a D/s relationship is a consistent part of the creation of our life together than i shall consider myself a lucky woman indeed.

Thank you for reading.

If you wish, i will be happy to send a picture. Please know, i am active and physically fit.