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| Hi! Yes, I am new; I get a lot of emails asking me that. Also, I am sorry, but I am not looking to be dominated online or over the phone and I prefer not to cyber - to answer many other emails. :-)� Also, I am married (yes, he knows what I am doing lol); so no, I am not willing to relocate.
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If you are interested in learning more, I have a very simple blog at http://purpledi13.tumblr.com/
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Update, I now belong to my Sir. Therefore, I am only looking for interesting conversations and friendship.
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Okay, thank you for all the replies answering the questions in my earlier journal entries. However, the questions asked were merely my rants for that day. I was not actually expecting answers. Lol
Next, please be fit, successful, and happy; if you would like to see if we "connect." I do not mean to sound like a snob or a bitch. I am a type A personality and very driven. I look for the same in a potential Dom. If you are not driven enough to be fit and successful, it is highly unlikely we will "connect." I am not saying you have to be rich or in any certain profession, but you must be driven to be successful in the career you have chosen. Also, I enjoy the sexual aspect of bdsm, so I must be attracted to both your intellect and physical appearance. I have worked hard to be who I am, I expect the same in a potential Dom. I apologize if this offends anyone.
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?It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That's part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything and can't even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel."
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Okay, another question. Why do men send an email saying hi and then immediately demand I verify who I am by a phone call or webcam? I understand there are a lot of people on these sites pretending to be women. However, I did not seek you out or contact you. I have not even had a sufficient amount of dialog to be mildly interested, before the demand to verify. Please understand, your need to verify I am in fact a woman is your issue. If I have a chance to become interested in you, you will know I am real. However, threatening me or declaring I am in fact a man will not force me to comply with your demand. I am not here to solve your issues, as if that were even possible. |
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Today is my day for questions... Why do so many people, both in and out of the lifestyle, assume a person had to have been abused to be into bdsm? I am amazed at how many times I am asked whether I was molested or raped (I won't even address the side-issue of common courtesy and not asking such a question of a stranger). I have not been sexually traumatized (maybe if some read this, they will resist the urge to ask). I just finished reading the book Fifty Shades of Grey, AGAIN, the one involved in bdsm suffered an abusive childhood...
Why has common courtesy disappeared? I receive more emails than I can keep track of that start out with a demand or ask to meet me, today. First, demanding an action of me before I know your name... REALLY??!! Submission is not universal or automatic. I do not submit to every person who thinks themselves a dom. Second, I would never consider submitting to a Dom before I have developed a relationship (based on shared knowledge of each other and TRUST).
If anyone actually reads this, I am not wanting to hook-up for a quick scene at a local hotel. I wish to develop a D/s relationship that goes beyond the physical pleasures of bdsm. I am passing no judgment. For me, I need more. I need the mental aspect to be present; I need the security of some form of relationship. |
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