I am an experienced Dominant. Of course, I am not experienced with you, so cannot claim any mastery of you, but that is the great thing about this lifestyle, the learning about each other. The lifestyle is much more than just sexual intimacy, but physical and mental closeness, and the ultimate in trust if you ask me. It takes trust and comfort.

I will not demand you get on your knees or call me Master on our first dates, submission is something that should be earned. It will be up to you no matter who you respond to give that most wonderful gift.

I have been in the lifestyle for about 4 years but Dominant in relationships for my entire adult life. Just didn't know it. I had a submissive who was wonderful but she had family in another state and I had to release her. She was collared and it was spectacular, but it was for the best, she had a granddaughter to take care of and a great job, so it just couldn't work out. (Even a Real Dom cannot compete with the cutest baby you have seen). However, I was left without a partner and vanilla doesn't cut it for me anymore. Dated a woman who was very dominant, she wanted to be right all the time, even if it killed her. It was never going to work. I don't mind being wrong if it is something that I can fix.