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I am an attached Englishman, educated and polite and believe that good manners and good taste never go out of style. My lifelong love of spanking and discipline has evolved into a wider love of and respect for D/s between consensual and caring people. I always enjoy intelligent conversation with fellow travellers - and not just about D/s: I have a wide range of interests and passions. I am not on a mission to find a submissive or spanking play partners but I am also not closed to the magic and the sharing that can happen when the right dominant and submissive energies intersect. I have found that these things seem to have an energy of their own... but right now I am really just looking for friends. I have a full and busy vanilla life with all the commitments and duties that go with being a responsible grown-up - but I have found some wonderful friends and understanding in the world of D/s ... and giving spankings to people I care about is one of the most fulfilling things I know. Have fun, be safe, spread love, don't judge.
10/27/2011 12:21:04 PM

I like to think that we have three guides as we cross this pathless landscape: our intellect, our emotions and our eros.  Each is just as important as the other but at times one will lead and the others tag along happily... but if one of them disagrees about the path presenting itself... then we all stop ... stupid things can feel good for a while ... smart things can be heartless and the eros can be selfish.