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plzandBplzd

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So, I’ve been actively participating in BDSM activities since I became sexually active; although, I did not actually realize or understand it at the time. Over the past few years I have incorporated into into my life more and more, but I’m still looking to find someone who is as open or as willing as I am to experiment and push boundaries. REVISED: I am actually finding I am more of a top than I initially thought.  I think it would take someone with a very strong personality and a good deal of experience to truly make me submit.  I am still in search of that, but seem to have better luck with switch or sub women.

I would really like to find a Domme or switch with a Domme streak that has some real time experience to help me find my limits, because right now I have no idea. I’ve never been with anyone that has brought me to that point yet. I am open to all races and religions, and pretty much any age within reason and legal age of course. I am not interested in 24/7 at this point and don’t know if I ever will be unless I find an amazing Domme or switch. I would like to find a regular partner or two for friends and more.

Please contact me with any questions, to chat, or even just friendship. I’m really open and would enjoy discussing the lifestyle or whatever comes up.

1/22/2011 12:29:20 PM

Okay, I NEVER write in my journal and my profile is probably a little outdated, BUT something irritated me to the point I felt the need to.  I now think I understand how a lot of the females on this site must feel when dealing with the plethora of idiots that probably contact them. 

 

I'm not going to out anyone, but someone contacted me (99% sure it's not a bot or a spammer) with a detailed message and I respectfully replied with a fairly detailed message as well.  There was 1 sentence out of a  4-5 paragraph reply that was taken COMPLETELY out of context, and it was quite obvious this individual had absolutely no concept of what I was referring to.

 

I receive a long "lecture" as a reply attempting to "educate" me, all the while completely twisting, changing, and adding their own words to 1 statement I made, one they clearly did not understand in the first place.

 

I again write a respectful, well thought out reply to clarify the statement and have an open dialogue about what was clearly a misunderstanding or lack of ability to grasp what I had said; only to find out I had been BLOCKED by someone who reached out to me! WTF!!!

 

If you do not have the capacity or intelligence to have an exchange of opinions, are the type of person that feels the need to voice their thoughts without the ability or willingness to accept a reply, or are so closed-minded you don't or can't see things in terms other than black and white; we would not be a good match!  IMHO everything is in shades of grey...