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| What is it that draws us all to this website? Is it the desire to fill something missing deep inside of ourselves? Is it just a wild fantasy that we are content to live out through relatively anonymous conversations? Is it the want of someone to take things to a deep level of commitment with? Maybe it's to find one who will take us to dark places inside of us we never knew existed, or maybe it's to explore the heights of passion we've only dreamed of. Everyone has their own reasons, and I find my own wide and varied.
I've spent nearly 10 years in the lifestyle now exploring different avenues of BDSM interactions. From the early days of simple play, learning the ropes so to speak, to commanding a girls submission on the deepest levels, I've found myself in many different roles, from play partner, to Daddy, to trainer, to plain and simple "Sir." I've noticed that though I can find enjoyment in nearly any type of interaction, I find the most satisfaction from two rather different situations.
The Daddy/lg dynamic is something that I believe is infinitely interesting. Trying to find the right balance between loving and caring for a baby girl and providing just the right amount of discipline and correction keeps me on my toes. It forces me to be constantly mindful, something I thrive on. The connection shared between a baby girl and her Daddy is something very unique, and I enjoy it greatly. I find a satisfaction in being able to provide and care for a girl under my care.
In contrast to that, I've found that I highly enjoy the raw energy that grows out of a Dominant using a female as nothing more than a pain slut. Although that is her primary role for a man, it does not mean that an intense personal relationship cannot spring up around a Dominant and his property. It fosters extremely different connections than does the Daddy/lg dynamic, but again, I find I thrive in this situation as well.
I've recently begun to put in serious effort to find someone that I mesh well with. I dont believe that anything should ever be "forced," rather it should grow organically between two people. I'll be sending out a few messages to those I feel I may have something in common with, and if from what you read here you think we might get along, feel free to say hi.
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