I am new to all this! I have little experience of submission but have been increasingly drawn to it. I am not a masochist though understand a degree of pain may be required to please. Pleasing is what I seek to do. I would love to play with a Domme/Dom or couple who are either both Dom(me) or to serve along side the sub partner. I adore the thought of worshipping and serving, restraint and many other things. I like cross dressing in holdups and heels and a dress but this is not compulsory if you see what I mean! It is only a small part of me and if it is not your thing I am equally happy to be the man I am 99.99% of the time. I am not hugely convincing have just started to experiment with makeup. I do have great legs in stockings tough and am slim. Without female atire I am athletically built and manly. I have many other vanilla interests. I am clean, discreet and drug free. My list of interests isn't necessarily things I have done as I have done very little. Where I have put 'love it' it is because I am almost certain I would! I wouldn't rule out anything really apart from the obvious. I am prepared to travel to meet the right person /people. Ideally I would like ongoing meetings. I am not looking for a traditional relationship but would like more than one offs and affection, kissing and good company would also be good.