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just to let you know. I'm messaged by hundreds on collarme. So, say something coherent and interesting. Ok.
Whomsoever will Dominate me shall be Strong, Sublime, Supportive, and Sexual. By strong I mean not only that they can wield a mean flogger, but more than that, they will be able to handle the adversities that life has offered them with grace and competence. By sublime I mean that they will have a beautiful, mulitidimensional, personality that?is not exhausted by a surface reading. By supportive I mean that they would be there for me and encourage me in whatever goals I valued bdsm or otherwise. By sexual I mean more than erotically charged, I mean often focused and aimed towards discharging that eroticism in their actions involving me and those others that will be there offering submission.
To me, those are the essential ingredients of a true dominant. Some may be thinking, 'She is apt to top from the bottom.'? Exactly the oposite is true. I'm tired of talking to those so called Dominants?who, because they lack these ingredients, require one to top from the bottom and then blame the sub, which sub then becomes the?victim?of?the so called dominant's?inadequate attempts.? I enjoy submission and even a considerable bit of eroticised pain?but that is not to say that I am masochistic in the sense required to endure an incompetent attempt at dominance.
Some may now be saying, 'that uppity cunt! I'll put her in her place and show her a thing or two."? Very nice, and perhaps you shall. But, If you are offended or angered by my statement, perhaps you should examine where in my error may be. I'm always ready to learn something.
For those of you who consider this and believe that you do indeed posess the virtues I mention, please by all means, I would love to hear from you !?? :)
on a final note of honesty, my profile pic is by now a good bit more than five years old and I must confess that my little belly is not so flat as then - ok! I've put on 10 lbs. on the other hand my breath are much larger now and I am experimenting with lactation.
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