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I am an experienced Dom seeking his new sub. I want to find someone who challenges me to improve myself as well as be a fulfilling partner in this lifestyle.
I am fit, handsome, rugged, workout every day, well endowed and have great stamina.
I enjoy control and domination, not as a mask for low sex drive or impotence.
I am very militaristic and believe in discipline, order, and reward.
I enjoy sex very much, as you may find out if chosen to be my sub.
Trust is required in this type of relationship, and will take time to build.
My ideal sub would still have a personality of her own.
Open to anything her Dom would be interested in sexually or otherwise, including public play, forced orgasms, wearing toys throughout the day to keep her on the brink of orgasm.
I would expect my sub to obey certain ground rules but for the most part behave as she normally would except for when in my presence.
Ideally: the "lady in public/whore in bed" concept which I'm after in a sub.
Privately: She goes from zero to complete whore before the door is shut. Why? Because it's who she really is.
She loves to peel off her clothes and let the anticipation of physical contact wash over her or wait for instruction on what to do.
Spread her ass and be ready? No problem.
Masturbate to get her juices flowing? She loves it.
Slowly drop to her knees to accept a cock in her throat? She lives for it.
She enjoys having a cock in her mouth because she actually gets off on the sensation of tasting it, the texture and the submissive feeling she gets when she's on her knees serving her Dom like a good girl. And she adores the feeling of being a good girl.
Somewhere deep down inside this slut he triggers a different type of arousal for her, one where she gets overwhelming pleasure in anticipation of knowing that she gets to please her Dom.
This is what she thrives on most: giving pleasure and she lets him know it.
Why? It's part of her make up, it's who she is and what she takes the greatest pride in.
It was there the day she was born and fully realized as her life experience progressed.
Sexually, she's at her peak and she knows what she needs to fulfill her.
From time to time she's not content with a just a good fucking, instead she comes alive with an amazing throttling.
Although she may be in a position of authority at work, she loves to give up this control once her sub mode takes over and her Dom towers above her. Inherently she's a woman, a real woman. One that likes to be "taken", thrown down on the floor or bed and used.
And she gets even more excited about being excited about the thought of what's going to happen to her.
Every hole gets penetrated, every orifice licked until she's on fire.
She likes to ride a cock until it goes soft because she loves getting it hard again and starting the whole process over.
This sub isn't here merely to get laid, but to enjoy a full body experience that only her Dom can provide.
Overall a deep trust is earned. One where she can let go and be open to whatever he has in mind for her. Whether it be training or different types of mental and physical stimulation. For her, the mental part is the submission, the physical part is the pleasure, and her reward is the release.
Publicly: Because of her high intelligence, the way she carries herself and her easy going demeanor, at least outwardly she would be construed as a "princess."
She dresses appropriately and has the above average looks of the girl next door.
She takes great satisfaction in dressing up and showing off for her Dom when either the occasion or her Dom dictates.
She realizes that ultimately she's a public reflection of her Dom.
She's picture perfect with every detail attended to as this is her public persona.
At work, it reflects the same. No one at her place of employment would ever guess the other side of her: her kink. It would absolutely floor even her closest friends if they found out how much of cum guzzler she really is. Or maybe she has just one close friend that she shares these fun little secrets with?
She likes those fleeting moments when she catches a glance of someone staring at her as she starts to wonder what they're wondering. She gets a tingle, she loves to be seductive. Her secret isn't just that she craves sex, that's too simple and she's far more complex.
A real secret is looking at the guys staring at her and wondering if they would be a strong enough Dom for her.
Part of the excitement is knowing that most guys, at least the ones that have the courage to talk to her, are not into what she's into and she knows this instantly.
What does she thrive on? She likes a private message from her Dom, "Wear a business skirt to the big meeting at work with no panties underneath. Then sneak your finger below and play with yourself", or "keep the butt plug in when you meet with your vanilla friends", or "keep the vibrator in when you go shopping". She gets a warm sensation when her Dom leans over and whispers her pet name, "princess", or "good girl". She melts at these words.
Although this wouldn't seem like a big deal to most, it is because she's earned that title which holds a significant place within him.
And she knows that when he gives her praise, he means it.
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Someone had this in their profile and I agreed with it so I am posting it for any slaves or subs interested. As a Dom I approve of these rights.
A slave's rights:
I have the right to have limits, and expect them to be respected even if I expect you to push and stretch my limits.
I have the right to trust, providing I have earned it.
I have the right to expect You to believe I am an intelligent, caring and loyal person.
I have the right to ask for Your attention, without having to misbehave to get it.
I have the right to expect You to administer Your punishment on me with care and caution.
I have the right to ask questions, should you deny my requests, as long as I do so with the proper respect.
I have the right to speak up if I feel O/our relationship is not giving me what I need.
I have the right to tell You what I need in a respectful manner.
I have the right to expect You to understand my reasons for doing so, and the right to expect You to listen with an open mind and heart.
I have the right to walk away from our relationship if W/we cannot come to a common ground on these issues.
I have the right to voice my opinion, and expect You to listen and to consider my reasoning's and I expect You to have final word.
I have the right to expect You to understand that deep trust often brings love, and I expect You not to repel me if I tell You that I love you.
For my Master I will love You, should O/our relationship move ahead, should O/our trust continue to grow.
I have the right to expect You to tell me, at any point, if You do not feel You can return these feelings, so that I may decide what I want and need, for it is Your pleasure that adds to my own, and makes it real, and mine, that adds to Yours! |
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I've found that most people, gender aside, are narcissistic, selfish children. I've often wondered if it is a result of our current society, a generation thing, or perhaps a result of our location in California. I have noticed that many people here in California are self absorbed and selfish, and i think that it comes from the lifestyle here accomodating that type of behavior, building upon itself; as though that behavior is more acceptable here. Every once in a while I will meet someone who is kind and generous and considerate, and they are a joy to behold and a pleasure to talk to. Sadly my experiences meeting those types of people are far and few between.
Particularly in the BDSM lifestyle, I have seen how it attracts the people with the worst types of narcissistic, childish behavior and indulgences. Either the man is only looking for a sex toy, or the woman is only searching for a sugar daddy to pay her expenses, both disgust me. I have always sought a deep, stirring connection with someone not just in this lifestyle, but in everyday life as well. Being dominant is part of who I am and an aspect of myself that has to be included in a relationship, but that doesn't make it the ONLY part that shows in the relationship. I understand that trust and respect are actually the basis for any relationship, but especially so for a relationship in this lifestyle. I want to find and push boundaries with someone, and in the process build a connection of trust and affection between us. I want a partner who knows and understands and trusts me as no other person can, and accepts me as I accept her; that is what true intimacy means to me. That is what I hope to find. |
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My first few days as a member. I've been contacting those who catch my interest, and been very respectful in my messages. Yet still I've gotten some completely rude, and quite bitchy responses. Just goes to show that assholes aren't gender biased.
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