Not looking to be owned, only chat at this time. There is enough hurt in this world, i really don't need more at this time.  Why is it that some Doms forget that subs are humans and do have feelings and emotions.  A true Dom knows who is in control of the relationship.  A Dom understands the sub has free will to give herself to the one she respects, an abuser is one who believes they are a Dom and tries to take or force their desires or views onto another.  Mutual respect, understanding and acceptance is the basis of any type of relationship not just vanilla.  Looking for someone who has the same views and understanding that i do.  If you would like to discuss any of this i would love to.   If you just want to voice your opinion and critisize not interested.