First of all, while I do have a strong dominant nature I am not on here claiming or pretending to be some hard-ass 24/7 Master. I am just a regular guy who has been into D/s and BDSM play for many years. How many years? Well, my age on here is correct and I knew D/s and BDSM was for me when I saw the movie "The Devil in Miss Jones" way back in '73. What an eyeopener! I've loved this stuff ever since.

In day-to-day life I am a successful business professional living in SE Michigan. I am pretty intelligent, have a good job, a decent house, and I live reasonably comfortably. I have a fairly healthy body and a very creative mind.

I believe that a good solid personal relationship based on trust, honesty, respect, compatibility and reciprocity is equally important as sharing mutual interests in D/s and BDSM play. Notice which ones I mentioned first. However, that does not imply any less importance to the D/s. In fact, at least for me, a good solid personal relationship can never be truly and completely fulfilling without D/s being a part of it.

Here is a disclosure. The main profile picture is not actually me. It symbolizes one of my more unique D/s-related interests. Besides the usual blindfolds and cuffs and spreader bars and such I enjoy gynoplay. That's where my handle on here came from too. DrW is short for my alter-ego "Dr. Wellhung". I've been into gynoplay for many years too. The subject of feminine sexuality really does fascinate me and I am very good at administering all kinds of erotic and sensual therapy to reward my sub for good behavior by satisfying her sexual needs and fulfilling her fantasies. If you are interested in learning more about my gynoplay interests just to a search for "Dr. Wellhung's Gyno Clinic" and you will find my xfreehosting site. It works best if you copy/paste, quotes included.

Notice also that I mentioned reward. I believe that reward is more powerful than discipline. While there certainly can be a time and place for discipline, I am not sadistic or abusive. I have no desire to nor will I ever beat or torture or humiliate my sub. I also firmly believe that my partner/sub's satisfaction is equally important as my own. I have learned that a partner/sub who is satisfied today will want to play more tomorrow.

Basically, I am seeking a generally submissive mature woman who wants a real loving relationship but also shares my interest in D/s and related activities. And I don't want her to be 24/7 slave or a doormat either. Reciprocity. If any of this interests you, let's talk. Don't be shy; send me a note on here. Maybe we can both find what we are looking for.