3/5/2022 10:29:12 AM: Now that the journals are active once again and I can bypass the normal profile edit failures I can express what I am looking for without it being rejected arbitrarily with no reasons stated.  What I seek is an online connection with a sincere submissive (female) with the same desires. I enjoy conversation both related to the lifestyle and vanilla.  I am into the mental aspects of CONTROL & submission and I have missed the intensity of getting into a submissive's mind.  Married is fine (in fact preferred) as I am married as well and I am not here to find a replacement but to meet one I can connect with who shares the same situation.  I enjoy contact via IRC, IM, email chat and other means to be negotiated.  I will consider couples but the female must be submissive and onboard actively.