Collarspace

I am a dominant male living in the U.S., although I travel somewhat extensively and would be open to meeting like-minded individuals abroad as well as here at home. I consider myself a fair and loving Dom, one who enjoys helping my sub discover who she is, what she craves, and how deep those cravings go.

I have what some may consider an unorthodox view of the Domsub relationship. Many Domsdommes will say to potential subs and slaves, Its not about you, you insignificant piece of nothingness. This is all about pleasing me and serving me. Maybe some subs and slaves need to hear that, and if so, fair enough.

But I think a true Domsub relationship is just the opposite. I view my role is a guide and teacher to my sub. I want to find out just exactly what she needs, and then provide that to her so that she can fulfill all of her desires and kinks. I true Dom is like a chameleon, becoming what his sub needs. Do you need humiliation, degradation, and punishment? I will provide that. Do you need a loving Daddy Dom to hold you, direct your life, and lovingly punish you when you are disobedient? Ill give you that love and direction. Do you need bondage, pain, and deliriously rough and crazed sex? Thats the Dom Ill be to you.

Being a Dom is not about being selfish and self-centered, demanding that others con themselves to your will and needs. Its about being loving and empathetic, being what your sub needs in order to take her to the highest levels of self-actualization and orgasmic attainment.

I hope to be able to share this Ds worldview with those looking for this type of relationship.