Looking for mildly to very kinky people for safe, sane, consensual play--or however you like it. My profile lists and my pics show some of my interests and preferred activities. In general, mild kink--but I can ramp it up, if that's what you like.

Not into owning or collaring anyone, being anyone's "Master," [but feel free to call me "Sir" 😀] or anything 24/7--just fun, kinky sessions with a little discomfort/pain leading to a lot of pleasure and orgasms. Mainly into the D/s and B/D aspects of BDSM, not so much the S/M part. If we both enjoy each other, hopefully, it could become something long-term, or not--your choice.

I find that communication is key to making this kind of relationship work, especially knowing things that you like/don't like, limits, and new activities that you might want to try. Before playing we will plan/negotiate the scene, set limits, and agree on safe words. Of course, you have the final word in what happens/doesn't happen and stopping (or slowing down) at any time.

I like all mental and physical aspects of BDSM. What I find most fun is inducing multiple, long and intense orgasms to put you deep into subspace. Also, I'm an excellent aftercare provider and cuddler.

I'm tall, in-shape, funny, smart, well educated and widely travelled.

Serious people only, please--no fakes, flakes or wannabes.