UPDATED!  If you choose to contact me, please include a clear photo and a detailed introduction. 

Please be tall, in shape and college educated.  I'm not at all interested in cross-dressers or outwardly feminine types.  I'm looking for someone successful.  I'm seeking something longterm that exists in the real world although perhaps as something different than what exists at home.  Ideally, I'd like to find someone who is outwardly masculine and in control when out in the world but who also knows his place within the confines of this relationship. Career-wise he should be a decision-maker and alpha male.  At home, I will decide where we live, with whom we socialize, how we spend our money and where we vacation. 

I don't need the conventions of this particular kink like being called "mistress" to be confident in my superiority.