My name is Eric. I am a dominant that has been in this life for over 10 years, I am still learning something new everyday. I am open to women and couples, I can get very dark and extreme, though I dont start off like that, unless that is agreed upon by all parties. For the most part I see this lifestyle as a gentle sloping hill, and we all start at the top, and make our own way down it into the darker depths of BDSM, each at our own pace. We are not all the same so it is irresponsible to try and force everyone into a preset number of defined roles with names that are treated as all important, this is supposed to be fun and enjoyable not just for the dominants but for us all. If you want to know something else just ask.