I am a very outgoing open and alpha man who, for as far back as I can remember, has gotten pleasure in seeing others happy.
If I am at a party I only care that everyone else is having fun. At work, I am a firm leader who wants to help people improve. With my friends, I am always there for them.
I actually learned about this lifestyle when I was in grade school as my friend found his fathers porn magazine stash. I read a story about a domme and her sub and it all clicked. I realized this lifestyle fit who I am. I am so glad to have found Fetlife to connect to others in the community.