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Like most people, i like to think of myself as unique
on the one hand yet not "different" on the other. i would very much like to be accepted for who and what i am but do not wish to be pigeonholed or
labeled. I can be very difficult to get to know, but have a strong enough ego to believe that it will be well worth the effort. My sense of humor can take time for some people to appreciate and may always remain incomprehensible to others. Ultimately i am not everyone's cup of sub. I love words.
I love playing with them. I love exploring them. I love exchanging
them. I even love making them up.So before you let anything i say upset
you,
please realize that much of what i say represents harmless wordplay and
should not be taken seriously.
I
think
it is sometimes possible to truly punish a humiliation slut by
humiliating him
yet still not humiliate him in a way that will hurt him. I am told I
can be humiliated in ways that embarrass but do not really harm or hurt
me, instead making me stop and think. I am also told that is not a
common attribute of submissives and can be quite confusing. Many seem
to think that humiliation is simple and humiliation sluts are easily
controlled. But i have learned the hard way that if someone attempts to
humiliate
me in the wrong way it can anger and hurt me. i also know that
traditional ways of handling humiliation sluts such as ignoring them or
giving them "time outs" can prove very counterproductive. Conversely
punishment humilation can
still be effective when administered by Someone who knows what She is
doing.
I am an intelligent, educated, witty, mischievous, submissive,
multifaceted, creative, droll, feisty, unique, male with little real
life D/s experience but plenty of life experience.
I
am married but have found that I need certain elements of D/s so i live
the parts of the lifestyle that i can when i can. Having said that, I
am here to try to find friends and hope if you have made it through
this much of my profile that you might consider becoming one.
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