I want a young lady who is sane and sensible, fun and outgoing, bright and fun… and who likes (or thinks she would like) to play Dominatrix once in a while; with a similarly sane and sensible, usually assertive, and normal guy!

I am a very big believer that D/s is all about the connection between two people, and how they feel about each other and not a menu of "stuff" and things you want to do. This may seem strange to many, but it’s also NOT about rules in the sense that there is no "right and wrong"

I really want to be submissive to the right person. I want too because I want to show that person how much I adore and truly worship them; and how much I trust and respect. And to really show them that I am happy to let them test the limits of my - willingness t submit - for her pleasure and amusement.

You may well see from the above that I don't want play with anyone random. Why would I trust, have respect for, and affection for somebody I don't know? How could a random person know me well enough?

I am normal and sane, in a good job, nice home. I don't have any issue about self image or about relationships. This is just an aspect of my life I really want to explore more, but it’s not the defining one. If that's how you feel then I would really like to talk too you and see if there is a spark of mutual attraction.